Paul, Thanks. I've felt the same way when others have posted about something difficult to read but should have had a care emoji instead of a heart!! Thanks for stopping by and reading.
Several of my extended relatives have committed suicide. I have written a manuscript about my mother’s childhood and I don’t mention it because it happen when she was an adult.
My family has hereditary depression.. some have attempted suicide but thankfully did not complete it and got help. Thank you for sharing. We are not alone.
This was so heartbreaking to read Lynda. So much sadness and tragedy. Unfortunately sadness is often the case when researching family history. I can understand that it would have been very difficult to write. Well done to you for facing it and writing the stories of your family.
This is heartbreaking to read and I'm sure it was painful to write, but what a service to others grappling with suicide in their families. As terrible as it is, it's good news that science has discovered a genetic link to suicide risk. I'm hopeful that will lead to more ways to prevent suicides and help families gain some insight into their own risks.
Laura, Thank you for your kind words. It was really difficult, especially about my brother. I did some research on Hairy Cell after I posted this, and it is still a rare disease, but they no longer used Interferon because patients had trouble with it, just what John was dealing with. They now use two drugs, and patients can go into remission for 10 years, but it's not curable yet. It was interesting to see the genetic link.
Oh the heartache. I'm so sorry, and so touched by your strength to look straight into it and capture it and give strength to others. 🥺 From the comments here you can already see that it has.
Thank you for sharing. We have quite a few instances in my family as well... I have one ancestor who I know from family stories committed suicide, but his death certificate shows his cause of death as an 'accident'.
There is suicide in my family. My father's father, during the Depression years, and his father before him, before he was even born. No one knew why, at least, no one ever told my Dad. Neither were ill, as far as I know. And there is also suicide on my husband's side. His uncle on his mother's side. Not even his wife knew why, so that is a mystery to all. Another uncle, on his father's side was a Jesuit, and at some point, during his assignment during WWII, he committed suicide. The Jesuits never confirmed it as such as it would be a sin against the church. So much grief and hush-hush in those days.
It feels wrong to like this post Lynda, but it’s a difficult subject to approach and I admire your courage ❤️
Paul, Thanks. I've felt the same way when others have posted about something difficult to read but should have had a care emoji instead of a heart!! Thanks for stopping by and reading.
Several of my extended relatives have committed suicide. I have written a manuscript about my mother’s childhood and I don’t mention it because it happen when she was an adult.
Naomi, As in my family, they were all adults. It's a difficult story to tell. Sorry you had it in your family too.
My family has hereditary depression.. some have attempted suicide but thankfully did not complete it and got help. Thank you for sharing. We are not alone.
Marci, I'm glad they got help. Thanks for your kind words.
This was so heartbreaking to read Lynda. So much sadness and tragedy. Unfortunately sadness is often the case when researching family history. I can understand that it would have been very difficult to write. Well done to you for facing it and writing the stories of your family.
Jennifer, Thank you.
This is heartbreaking to read and I'm sure it was painful to write, but what a service to others grappling with suicide in their families. As terrible as it is, it's good news that science has discovered a genetic link to suicide risk. I'm hopeful that will lead to more ways to prevent suicides and help families gain some insight into their own risks.
Thank you for this, Lynda.
Laura, Thank you for your kind words. It was really difficult, especially about my brother. I did some research on Hairy Cell after I posted this, and it is still a rare disease, but they no longer used Interferon because patients had trouble with it, just what John was dealing with. They now use two drugs, and patients can go into remission for 10 years, but it's not curable yet. It was interesting to see the genetic link.
A hard subject, but so worth the exploration. Thank you.
Helene, Thanks.
Oh the heartache. I'm so sorry, and so touched by your strength to look straight into it and capture it and give strength to others. 🥺 From the comments here you can already see that it has.
Barbara, Thank you.
In the culture I grew up in, I recall some male suicides who got girls pregnant without the benefit of marriage. It was a shame!
Marian, That’s awful and so sad.
Thank you for sharing. We have quite a few instances in my family as well... I have one ancestor who I know from family stories committed suicide, but his death certificate shows his cause of death as an 'accident'.
Thank you for stopping by and commenting.
There is suicide in my family. My father's father, during the Depression years, and his father before him, before he was even born. No one knew why, at least, no one ever told my Dad. Neither were ill, as far as I know. And there is also suicide on my husband's side. His uncle on his mother's side. Not even his wife knew why, so that is a mystery to all. Another uncle, on his father's side was a Jesuit, and at some point, during his assignment during WWII, he committed suicide. The Jesuits never confirmed it as such as it would be a sin against the church. So much grief and hush-hush in those days.
Oh my, Lesley. So sad. Thanks for reading and commenting.
How interesting that there is a genetic link for this. I'm so sorry about your family members.
Cynthia, Thanks. It was interesting to find out about the genetic link.